COFFEE MEETS

**Coffee Meets Bagel (CMB)** is a unique and refreshing approach to online dating. It’s designed for people looking for more meaningful connections without the endless swiping. Here's an overview of what makes it stand out, plus some tips for making the most of it: --- ### **How Coffee Meets Bagel Works** 1. **Daily Matches**: Each day at noon, you get a limited number of "bagels" (matches) based on your preferences and profile. You can like or pass on them, but it’s all about quality over quantity. 2. **Profile Focus**: The app uses a combination of a detailed profile and icebreaker prompts. This means you’ll get a chance to show more about yourself than just a few photos. 3. **Prompts for Conversation**: Every profile has a few prompts to help get the conversation started (e.g., “Most spontaneous thing I’ve ever done” or “My ideal weekend”). This encourages more thoughtful, personalized interactions. 4. **No Endless Swiping**: You won’t be stuck in a cycle of endless swiping like on apps like Tinder. You get a set number of profiles daily, and you can only like or pass. It’s more focused, which is a huge plus for those looking for a serious relationship. --- ### **Why CMB Is Great for Lesbian Dating** 1. **Serious Intentions**: Since you get fewer matches, it tends to attract people who are more serious about dating. That means fewer “hookup” seekers and more people looking for long-term connections. 2. **Curated Experience**: The app’s algorithms use your preferences and the information you provide to match you with people who have a similar lifestyle, hobbies, or interests. This can lead to more meaningful conversations right off the bat. 3. **LGBTQ+ Friendly**: While CMB is not as specialized as some apps like HER, it’s still very LGBTQ+ inclusive. You can set your preferences for the kind of relationship you want, and they allow you to select same-gender or open options. --- ### **Tips for Making the Most of Coffee Meets Bagel** #### 1. **Craft a Standout Profile** * **Answer the prompts thoughtfully**: Give answers that show off your personality. The more specific and real, the better. For example, instead of saying “I love traveling,” mention your favorite trip or dream destination. * **Pick good photos**: CMB only lets you upload a few, so make sure they showcase different sides of you—one clear, smiling face photo and another that shows you in action (e.g., hiking, cooking, hanging out with friends). #### 2. **Use the Icebreakers** * You’re given preset icebreaker questions. Pick ones that allow for more engaging responses. Don’t be afraid to have fun with it! * If you’re both into the same music or movies, mention it and ask for recommendations. It’s a great way to start a deeper conversation. #### 3. **Be Patient** * Since you only get a few matches per day, it can feel slow compared to swipe-heavy apps. But this is the whole point of CMB—it encourages quality connections over quantity. Don’t feel discouraged if you don’t hit it off with everyone. #### 4. **Start Conversations Smartly** * Focus on what’s in their profile to ask questions. A generic “Hey” won’t get you far, but something like “I love that you’re into photography! What’s the most interesting photo you’ve taken?” shows you’ve read their profile and are genuinely interested. --- ### **Things to Keep in Mind** * **Pay for Premium (Optional)**: The free version gives you a good amount of access, but upgrading to a premium plan can give you more matches, extra features, and a look at who liked you, which might speed up the process. * **No “Super Likes”**: While other apps let you express extra interest with “Super Likes,” CMB focuses on more deliberate connections, which means it takes away the stress of trying to stand out in a crowded, fast-paced environment. --- If you’re thinking of joining, I’d be happy to help you optimize your profile! Just let me know what you’re hoping to highlight or what kind of person you're looking for, and I can help you craft a profile that’ll get you noticed.